seems like everything, to me is just either black or white.

I can settle for a happy medium for some things like my hair, for example when I want it to be really blonde but then it goes to this golden yellowy colour.. I'm fine with it.

But with things like people.. it's black or white (not the colour skin) but just my opinions about them, and it's hard for me to change it, even after I get to know them better.